{"id":25294,"date":"2010-01-31T06:14:17","date_gmt":"2010-01-31T10:14:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/communio.stblogs.org\/index.php\/2010\/01\/saint-john-bosco-2\/"},"modified":"2010-01-31T06:14:17","modified_gmt":"2010-01-31T10:14:17","slug":"saint-john-bosco-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/communio.stblogs.org\/index.php\/2010\/01\/saint-john-bosco-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Saint John Bosco"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--StartFragment--><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-family:ArialMS\"><i>The kingdom of heaven is<br \/>\nlike a mustard seed which a man took and sowed in his field. It is the smallest<br \/>\nof all the seeds but when it has grown it is the biggest shrub of all and<br \/>\nbecomes a tree so that the birds of the air come and shelter in its branches.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font class=\"Apple-style-span\" face=\"ArialMS, helvetica, hirakakupro-w3, osaka, 'ms pgothic', sans-serif\"><br \/><\/font><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/communio.stblogs.org\/St%20John%20Bosco.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"St John Bosco.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/communio.stblogs.org\/assets_c\/2010\/01\/St John Bosco-thumb-275x412-5623.jpg\" width=\"275\" height=\"412\" class=\"mt-image-right\" style=\"float: right; margin: 0 0 20px 20px;\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font class=\"Apple-style-span\" face=\"ArialMS, helvetica, hirakakupro-w3, osaka, 'ms pgothic', sans-serif\">Because today is a Sunday, the Church does not observe the feast of Saint John Bosco, known also as Don Bosco. However, in the Salesian family, Don Bosco&#8217;s it is a feast day. My encounters with members of the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sdb.org\/sdbweb\/index.asp?Lingua=2+\">Salesian family<\/a> have been few so I&#8217;ve poked around their website to learn a little more of the spirit of Don Bosco. T<\/font>he<br \/>\nparagraphs are excerpts of a May 10, 1884 letter by Saint John Bosco,<br \/>\nconsidered by some to be the &#8220;Magna Carta&#8221; of Salesian Education. It<br \/>\nis included as an appendix to the Constitutions of the Salesian Society, and<br \/>\ngiven to members of the Salesian Family. In the USA the Salesians are not as<br \/>\nknown as in other parts of the world. Here, their educational system was<br \/>\nperceived to be competing with the Jesuits, and Salesians could not compete.<br \/>\nThe Jesuits have about 47 high schools in all the major cities. Be that as it<br \/>\nmay, Saint John Bosco provides for us an insight into effective pastoral<br \/>\nministry. The Salesians of Don Bosco are influential in various sectors of the<br \/>\nChurch, primarily in education and with the youth. The reasons for this fact are evident in the letter below. If you are interested in the Salesian priests and sisters, visit their <a href=\"http:\/\/www.salesians.org\/\">website<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><i>From the letter of Don Bosco<\/i>:&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">By<br \/>\na friendly informal relationship with the boys, especially in recreation<\/span>. You<br \/>\ncannot have love without this familiarity, and where this is not evident there<br \/>\ncan be no confidence. <span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">If you want to be loved, you must make it clear that you<br \/>\nlove<\/span>. Jesus Christ made himself little with the little ones and bore our<br \/>\nweaknesses. He is our master in the matter of the friendly approach. The<br \/>\nteacher who is seen only in the classroom is a teacher and nothing more; but if<br \/>\nhe joins in the pupils&#8217; recreation he becomes their brother. If someone is only<br \/>\nseen preaching from the pulpit it will be said that he is doing no more and no<br \/>\nless than his duty, whereas if he says a good word in recreation it is heard as<br \/>\nthe word of one who loves.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><b>How many conversions have been brought about by a<br \/>\nfew words whispered in the ear of a youngster while he is playing<\/b>. One who<br \/>\nknows he is loved loves in return, and one who loves can obtain anything,<br \/>\nespecially from the young. This confidence creates an electric current between<br \/>\nyoungsters and their superiors. Hearts are opened, needs and weaknesses made<br \/>\nknown. <b>This love enables superiors to put up with the weariness, the annoyance,<br \/>\nthe ingratitude, the troubles that youngsters cause. Jesus Christ did not crush<br \/>\nthe bruised reed nor quench the smouldering flax. He is your model<\/b>. Then you<br \/>\nwill no longer see anyone working for his own glory; you will no longer see<br \/>\nanyone punishing out of wounded self-love; you will not see anyone neglecting<br \/>\nthe work of supervision through jealousy of another&#8217;s popularity; you won&#8217;t<br \/>\nhear people running others down so as to be looked up to by the boys: those who<br \/>\nexclude all other superiors and earn for themselves nothing but contempt and<br \/>\nhypocritical flattery; people who let their hearts be stolen by one individual<br \/>\nand neglect all the other boys to cultivate that particular one. No one will<br \/>\nneglect his strict duty of supervision for the sake of his own ease and<br \/>\ncomfort; no one will fail through human respect to reprimand those who need<br \/>\nreprimanding. If we have this true love, we shall not seek anything other than<br \/>\nthe glory of God and the good of souls. When this love languishes, things no<br \/>\nlonger go well. Why do people want to replace love with cold rules? Why do the<br \/>\nsuperiors move away from the observance of the rules Don Bosco has given them?<br \/>\nWhy the replacement little by little of loving and watchful prevention by a<br \/>\nsystem which consists in framing laws? Such laws either have to be sustained<br \/>\nthrough punishment and so create hatred and cause unhappiness or, if they are<br \/>\nnot enforced, cause the superiors to be despised and bring about serious<br \/>\ndisorders. This is sure to happen if there is no friendly relationship. So if<br \/>\nyou want the Oratory to return to the happiness of old, then bring back the old<br \/>\nsystem: let the superior be all things to all, always ready to listen to any<br \/>\nboy&#8217;s complaints or doubts, always alert to keep a paternal eye on their<br \/>\nconduct, all heart to seek the spiritual and temporal good of those Divine<br \/>\nProvidence has entrusted to him. <span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Then hearts will no longer be closed and<br \/>\ndeadly subterfuge will no longer hold sway<\/span>. The superiors should be unbending<br \/>\nonly in the case of immoral conduct. It is better to run the risk of expelling<br \/>\nsomeone who is innocent than to keep someone who causes others to sin.<br \/>\nAssistants should make it a strict duty in conscience to refer to the superiors<br \/>\nwhatever they know to be an offence against God.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p><!--EndFragment--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The kingdom of heaven is like a mustard seed which a man took and sowed in his field. It is the smallest of all the seeds but when it has grown it is the biggest shrub of all and becomes a tree so that the birds of the air come and shelter in its branches. &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/communio.stblogs.org\/index.php\/2010\/01\/saint-john-bosco-2\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Saint John Bosco<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[1710],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/communio.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25294"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/communio.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/communio.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/communio.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/communio.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25294"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/communio.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25294\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/communio.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25294"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/communio.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25294"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/communio.stblogs.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25294"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}