Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth (CSFN) celebrate jubilees in the vowed life

The Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth (CSFN) in the New
England region celebrated the jubilees of three sisters today: Sister Mary
Victoria (75 years), Sister Mary Barbara (50 years) and Sister Maryann (25
years). We also remembered Sister Jeanette who died in December and who was to
celebrated 50 years.

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The Sacrifice of the Mass was celebrated by Father Jim
Meszaros (of NY) and the homilist was Monsignor Robert Weiss, pastor of Saint
Rose of Lima (Newtown, CT & friend of Sister Barbara); six priests concelebrated.
Sister Mary Ellen did a very nice job with the music that was selected by a
julibarian sister.

The Mass included the renewal of vows of the jubilarians.
After giving thanks for the graces of perseverance and service, the sisters
promised to continue to be faithful to Mother Foundress’ vision and spirit
cooperating with Christ and the Church as women of prayer and service. The
example of the Blessed Virgin Mary, Saint Joseph and the saints were invoked
for supernatural assistance. A striking line from Blessed Mary of Jesus the
Good Shepherd were striking: “Once again I had the unmistakable evidence that
human hearts are in the hands of God, that we depend upon Him alone, and that
His Will guides the course of our lives.”

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Guests from all over New England and New York and
Pennsylvania came to pray and celebrate. The Sisters had a delicious dinner for
us. I enjoyed dinner and conversation with friends and colleagues Sisters Mary
Ellen, Thaddeus, Rose, (at right) Virginette and Mary Anthony. The company was truly
delightful and the hospitality warm!

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Following our midday dinner Sister Mary Ellen (in the gray habit) gave me a
gracious tour of the beautiful grounds and the CSFN heritage room. Since I love
the history of religious life and the Sisters of this congregation, I was much
happy to see how the CSFNs have labored in the Lord’s vineyard.

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Among the sisters at the Monroe convent are my second and
fifth grade teachers plus a few other sisters I’ve known since my grammar
school days. Sister Mary Constance is doing well for 86 (65 years in the
convent) and Sister Mary Estelle is living with Alzheimer’s and was peacefully
sleeping. I also saw Sister Hedwig at dinner.

But who are the Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth
(CSFN)? In their own words they are:

CSFN arms.jpgWe,
the Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth, an international apostolic
Congregation, believe that the Holy Family of Nazareth, three persons in
communion with God and each other
; obedient and faithful to the will of God,
reveals to us the profound reality that God is present in the most simple and
ordinary experiences of human life
. This vision, which so captivated our
Foundress, Blessed Mary of Jesus the Good Shepherd (Frances Siedliska), is the
source and inspiration for our life and service. Sharing in Jesus’ mission of
spreading the Kingdom of God’s love, we engage in a variety of ministries with
and in the Church. Mindful that it is an environment of love that persons come
to fullness of life, we witness a family spirit among ourselves, and are
dedicated to the moral and religious renewal of family life. We are committed
to create communities of love and hope, which celebrate the oneness of the
human family.

Father Paul Cioffi, 5th anniv. of death today

Paul Cioffi.jpgPlease pray for the peaceful repose of the soul of the Reverend Father Paul Cioffi, S.J.

He was a friend and mentor to me, especially in the field of liturgical theology, when I was at Georgetown. Paul’s sudden death still reminds me of the fragility of life.

Eternal rest

Sister Mary Veronica Grzelak, CSFN, RIP

This morning I attended the Mass of Christian Burial of Sister Mary Veronica (of the Eucharistic Face of the Lord) Grzelak. Sister Veronica was 98 years old and 83 years a professed religious sister in the Congregation of Sisters of the Holy Family of Nazareth and she was my grammar school principal. The chaplain to the sisters, Father James Cole, gave a fine homily connecting the suffering and pain we suffer here, as Sister Veronica did in the last years of her life, with the suffering and pain of the Lord. That is, suffering and pain is redemptive, that is, it has real meaning if we accept it and connect it with the Lord’s suffering. Therefore we say that in connecting our trials here with someone greater than ourselves allows us not to focus on ourselves alone but on the needs and sufferings of those around us, indeed others in the world. In this case, that someone is the Jesus.

The Nazareth sisters mourn a great and brilliant woman; Sister Veronica, like all of us, was a complicated person but a loving and wildly generous woman of faith who gave a great witness to the Lord’s generosity. When I last saw Sister Veronica about 10 years ago she gave me a great big hug and kiss. On Friday, the day she died, I returned the gesture of love and thanked her. Our Christian lives are necessarily marked by gratitude or they are not really Christian.

I graduated Saint Stanislaus School (New Haven, CT) 26 years ago. I never would have thought now I would have had an adult relationship with the congregation of sisters who taught me in grammar school never mind be a part of the funeral rites of one of the sisters. Sister Veronica was 72 years old when she was my principal and continued to work for years afterward. When most people retire for active work, Sister Mary Veronica (of the Eucharistic Face of the Lord) Grzelak continued to be an icon of the generosity of the Lord.

Walking around the cemetery I noticed the names of others Nazareth sisters I knew: Sister Mary Carol, Sister Mary Rosetta, Sister Mary Eleanor, Sister Mary Joanita.

God grant them rest, peace and light!

Gram’s anniversary of death

11 years ago today my maternal grandmother, Marian Barrett Leslie Grindell died at the age of 92. Then, as I do now, I thought that she’d be present to me forever. Biologically she died, but spiritually she remains close, true to what the Preface for the Mass of Christian Burial says, “life has changed, not ended.” I prayed for her today, as did my my Mom, recognizing the distance in time and activities that have transpired since that day the Lord called.

May the Good Shepherd and the saints keep her, and may her memory be eternal.

A friend visits

Michael Philips & PAZ 5 March 2009.JPGA very dear friend was visiting me at the Abbey this week. Father Michael is an Orthodox monk following the Rule of Saint Benedict at a small monastery called Christminster just outside Toronto, Canada. It was delightful to have him here for a few days; until recently he was on the left coast of these United States and so I am grateful that he’s back in the east, well, sort of east….

The Wiki note on Christminster

Marygrace Peters, O.P. RIP

Marygrace Peters, OP.jpgToday, I learned of the death of a former professor of mine, Sister Marygrace “Ginger” Peters, OP (on the left in the picture). Sister Marygrace died on Feb 21, 2009 after a long battle with lung cancer.  Of late she was the Prioress General of the Houston Dominican Sisters.

When I was doing studies in St. Louis, MO, I had five classes at Aquinas Institute of Theology, for one of the classes Sister was my Church History professor. At all times Sister Marygrace was a terriffic presence: happy, faithful, positive and prayerful. All what you would expect and cherish in a Dominican sister. Plus, she was a New Englander which was a consolation many times!

May the soul of Sister Marygrace rest in the peace and love of our Lord!

Ring them bells, for the city that dreams
Ring them bells from the sanctuaries
Cross the valleys and streams
For they’re deep and they’re wide
And the world’s on its side
Ring them bells
For the lines they are long
And they’re breaking down the distance
Between right and wrong.

John Donne